Understanding Anxiety
Everyone experiences anxiety at times. Feeling stressed and anxious is a normal response to challenging situations that arise in daily life. However, too much anxiety can have a negative impact on your health and well-being.
Everyone reacts to anxiety differently, so it is important to take some time to reflect on what you are experiencing and understand your own emotions. As difficult as it can be, remember to be kind to yourself and reach out for support if you need it.
Signs that someone may be experiencing anxiety
You are likely familiar with the “classic” symptoms of anxiety – the ones we hear about more often or see depicted in media. These include the more obvious signs that our body is in fight, flight, or freeze mode, such as a rapid heartbeat, fast breathing, butterflies in the stomach, racing thoughts, and breaking into a sweat. But not everyone will experience anxiety this way or the same way every time.
Other signs and symptoms of anxiety can include:
- Feeling overwhelmed and unable to focus
- Forgetfulness
- Fatigue
- Upset stomach and digestion issues
- Irritability
- Denial
- Worrying about things that wouldn’t normally cause you stress
- Muscle tension or pain
- …and others, depending on the individual and situation
Sometimes there is an obvious situation or event that will cause you to be anxious. Public speaking and job interviews, for example, make many people very anxious. Significant changes in the workplace or projects that are not clearly defined can also create feelings of anxiety for many people. Sometimes positive changes, such as a job promotion or new opportunity, can also cause anxiety.
What can you do to reduce stress and anxiety?
- Lean into the basics of self-care. Try to eat well, find a physical activity that calms your mind, and make time for sleep.
- Limit your caffeine and alcohol consumption. These substances might make you feel better temporarily, but they can make you feel worse in the long-term.
- Talk to a trusted friend, colleague, or support group. Sometimes it is helpful just to know that you are not alone, to feel heard, and to put words to what you are going through.
- Unplug sometimes. It can help to unplug from social media and the news. While it is important to stay up to date using reliable sources, the constant stream of information and social media can be too much at times.
- Right size goals and milestones. Sometimes our own expectations of ourselves contribute to anxiety. Some of the things we want to achieve may not go as planned. Try to practice kindness toward yourself. Set a realistic timeline for what you want to accomplish and work backwards to identify smaller milestones or checkpoints. This will keep you on track while also providing some small wins and moments to celebrate along the way.
- Ask for help. If you have a doctor or local clinic, that can be a good place to start. We have included more supports below.
Looking for support?
- Call 811 toll-free in BC to speak to a health services navigator.
- Call 310-6789 (no area code) for emotional support, information, and mental health resources
- BounceBack® is a free online and tele-coaching program for individuals experiencing low mood, mild to moderate depression, anxiety, stress, or worry.
- Living Life to the Full is a community-based course that helps build skills for problem solving, managing anxiety, improving mood and more
Learn More:
- Anxiety Resources | Anxiety Canada
- Anxiety Disorders | HeretoHelp